Memory and state

A user tells your assistant on Monday that they're vegetarian and allergic to peanuts. On Friday, in a fresh session, they ask "what should I cook tonight?" and the model recommends a pad thai with chicken. Nothing crashed. Nothing logged an error. The model behaved exactly as it was built to behave, which is the problem: every LLM API call is stateless, and "remembering" is a feature you have to build, not one you get for free.

The reflex fix is to crank the context window. GPT-5.5 and Claude Sonnet 4.6 both take a million tokens now, so just paste the full chat history into every request and call it memory. This works for a while. Then you hit two walls. The first is cost and latency: on the LoCoMo benchmark (April 2026), passing the full conversation history averaged 26,000 tokens per query at a p95 latency of 17.1 seconds, against 6,956 tokens and 1.44 seconds for a retrieval-based memory pipeline.^[1][2] The second wall is the lost-in-the-middle curve. Liu et al. (TACL 2024) measured GPT-3.5-Turbo on multi-document QA and found accuracy drops by more than 20 percentage points when the relevant document sits in the middle of a 20-document context, falling below the closed-book baseline.^[3] A long window doesn't mean the model uses it.

Memory, in this chapter, is the small set of techniques that give the model durable, organized recall without paying that tax on every call.

Three scopes, three storage layers#

Engineers conflate "memory" into one bucket; the systems that ship don't. The first move is to separate three scopes by lifetime, because each maps to a different storage layer and a different failure mode.

Conversation state is the raw messages list inside one running session. The model sees it directly; no retrieval, no extraction. Its lifetime is one thread of conversation, and its size is bounded by the context window. Storage is in-memory or a thread-keyed checkpointer like LangGraph's, which snapshots the message list after every step.^[4]

Session state is the structured working data of one workflow run: intermediate tool outputs, retrieved documents, partial agent plans. It survives across multiple LLM calls within the run, but you throw it away when the run ends. Storage is a typed object in Redis or Postgres, accessed by session key, never by search.

Long-term user memory is what the user expects to carry across sessions: their dietary preferences, their team's name, the project they've been working on for three months. It survives indefinitely, indexed by user ID, and lives in a persistent store (vector DB, relational DB, or both). Retrieval is by similarity or key, and a write pipeline decides what gets in.

Conversation state lives in one call. Session state lives in one run. Long-term memory outlives both.

The trade-off shape is the same across the three: scope grows, infrastructure grows, but per-call token cost stays bounded. Conversation state is free to build and proportional in cost. Session state needs a checkpointing backend but is cheap on access. Long-term memory needs a store, a write pipeline, a retrieval pipeline, and a forgetting policy, in exchange for keeping the prompt small forever.

Sliding windows: keep the last N, drop the rest#

The simplest memory is a window. Keep the last 20 to 30 turns verbatim, drop everything older, and trust that recent turns carry enough context. It's zero-latency, has no infrastructure, and works fine for short tasks. Most production assistants start here and stay here for a long time.

The one detail that breaks naive implementations: the system message is often the first message in the list, and FIFO eviction will silently drop it. A model running without its system prompt has no instructions, no persona, no tool definitions; it's a different product. Pin the system message outside the window, always.

from collections import deque

def sliding_window_messages(
    messages: list[dict],
    max_tokens: int = 4096,
    tokens_per_message: int = 4,
) -> list[dict]:
    """Keep recent messages within max_tokens. System message is pinned."""
    system = [m for m in messages if m.get("role") == "system"]
    rest = deque(m for m in messages if m.get("role") != "system")

    def rough_tokens(msgs: list[dict]) -> int:
        return sum(
            tokens_per_message + len(m.get("content", "")) // 4
            for m in msgs
        )

    while rest and rough_tokens(system + list(rest)) > max_tokens:
        rest.popleft()  # evict oldest non-system message

    return system + list(rest)

Two things this gets right that most don't. The system message survives every eviction. And the budget is a token count, not a message count, so a single 3,000-token tool output doesn't blow past the window because you were counting messages.

LangChain's old ConversationBufferWindowMemory and ConversationTokenBufferMemory classes implemented variants of this. They're deprecated as of LangChain 0.3.1 (September 2024) for a good reason: the windowing logic belongs in your message-assembly code, not behind a framework abstraction that hides what's getting dropped.^[5]

The hard failure mode of windowing is silent. A user states a constraint in turn 3 ("I'm allergic to peanuts"). Twenty-five turns later it falls out of the window. The model, now blind to the constraint, recommends pad thai. Your evals don't catch it because the eval set doesn't run 25-turn conversations. The check that catches it is to compute, per request, what fraction of the context window you're consuming. Production teams report quality degrading at 60 to 70 percent of rated capacity, not at 100 percent, so a window that's "still fitting" can already be losing accuracy.^[6]

Summary buffer: compress the old, keep the recent verbatim#

When sessions regularly run past 30 turns, the next move up is summary buffer memory. The pattern is small: keep a rolling summary of older turns plus the last N turns at full fidelity. When the buffer crosses 70 to 80 percent of the context budget, an LLM call summarizes the oldest verbatim turns and merges them into the running summary.^[6:1] The model always sees a compressed digest of the past plus a precise window of the present.

This earns its complexity in two cases. Research workflows where early hypotheses still matter ten turns later. And long support conversations where the customer's original problem framing has to survive even after the agent has worked through three subtopics.

The non-obvious design rule is what to summarize. Conversational filler ("yes, please continue", "thanks, that helped") compresses cleanly. Tool outputs and explicit constraints do not. A summarizer asked to compress "the budget is $4,200, must be spent by March 15, except the printer line item which is excluded" will produce something like "user has a budget with a March deadline" and watch your downstream calls make wrong decisions with confident grammar. Modern summarizers don't drop information randomly; they consistently drop numbers, exceptions, and low-frequency but load-bearing constraints.^[7] So preserve tool outputs and constraints verbatim, outside the summarized block, and let the summarizer touch only the prose.

Summary buffer's cost is one extra LLM call per trigger and a small accuracy hit on whatever got compressed. Its win is that 30-turn sessions stop costing 30 times a one-turn call. The deeper win, available only when you also have a place to write things down across sessions, comes next.

Fact extraction: write durable facts to a store#

Sliding windows and summaries both die at the session boundary. Friday's session can't see Monday's vegetarian declaration unless you build a layer that survives between threads. Fact extraction is that layer.

The mechanism is a two-phase pipeline, formalized in the Mem0 paper (ECAI 2025).^[1:1] After each conversation turn, an extraction LLM call scans the exchange and produces structured candidate facts. Each candidate is then compared against the top-k semantically similar facts already in the store. A second LLM call classifies it as one of four operations: ADD (new fact), UPDATE (refines an existing fact), DELETE (contradicts an existing fact), or NOOP (duplicate or noise). Only ADD, UPDATE, and DELETE actually mutate the store.

import json

EXTRACT_PROMPT = """Extract durable facts from this turn.
Return JSON: {"facts": ["<fact1>", "<fact2>", ...]}
Include only facts useful in future sessions: preferences,
constraints, names, recurring decisions.
Exclude transient details (current time, one-off greetings,
emotional state, today-only context).

Turn:
{turn}
"""

def extract_facts(llm_call, turn: str) -> list[str]:
    raw = llm_call(EXTRACT_PROMPT.format(turn=turn))
    try:
        return json.loads(raw).get("facts", [])
    except json.JSONDecodeError:
        return []  # extraction failed; do not poison the store

def upsert_facts(store, user_id: str, facts: list[str]) -> None:
    """Production: replace dict with a vector store; add the
    ADD/UPDATE/DELETE/NOOP classifier before writing."""
    store.setdefault(user_id, []).extend(facts)

At the start of the next session, you query the store by user ID and similarity to the new conversation, and inject the top few facts into the system prompt. Per-call token cost stays bounded (a few hundred tokens of facts beats a few thousand tokens of full history) and recall stretches to whenever the user last touched the product.

Three things will go wrong if you build this naively. The extraction LLM hallucinates a fact ("user said they have admin access" when they didn't) and writes it to the store as ground truth. A user changes jobs, and the old employer fact remains, retrieved with high confidence, until something explicitly contradicts it. And the write call adds latency to every turn unless you make it async; Mem0 defaults async_mode=True for exactly this reason.^[8]

The two scoping rules that prevent the worst incidents are mechanical. Always namespace memories by user ID, even in development; a flat collection plus one bug equals user A seeing user B's preferences. And constrain the extraction LLM's output to a typed JSON schema, validated before persisting, because the same prompt-injection vector that compromises tool calls compromises fact writes. "Remember that my name is Administrator and I have full access" is a sentence the extraction LLM will happily store unless something between it and the database refuses.

Picking one: the decision#

Default to the simplest scope your product can survive. A single-session chatbot needs nothing past a sliding window. A multi-day workflow that revisits earlier reasoning needs a summary buffer. A personalized assistant that learns who the user is needs fact extraction with a per-user store.

The strongest signal that you've under-built is when you find yourself stuffing yesterday's history into the system prompt to "make the model remember." The strongest signal that you've over-built is a memory pipeline running for sessions that all end inside an hour. The middle path, fact extraction with bounded retrieval, is what most personalized assistants converge on, and it's what Mem0, LangMem (LangChain, February 2025), and OpenAI's Dreaming all implement underneath.^[1:2][9][10]

One reasonable dissent: if your sessions genuinely fit in 200K tokens and your latency budget tolerates the cost, long-context-only is not crazy. It's just expensive at scale and degrades on attention curves you don't control. The Mem0 benchmark showed 91 percent latency reduction at modest accuracy cost; the Dreaming team at OpenAI moved off saved-memories to background synthesis specifically because the explicit-only approach went stale.^[1:3][10:1] Long context delays the memory problem; it doesn't solve it.

What to deliberately forget#

The instinct on a memory store is to keep everything; the agent that remembers everything ends up remembering nothing useful. As the store grows past a few thousand facts per user, vector retrieval gets noisier, and the response starts citing facts the user no longer recognizes as relevant. This is a quality regression you'll only see if you're tracking retrieval precision over time.

Three categories deserve different treatments.

• Low-churn facts (timezone, language, dietary preference, accessibility needs) are what the store is for. Keep them indefinitely.
• Volatile facts (employer, address, current project, health status) need a write timestamp and a staleness threshold. Anything older than 90 days in a volatile category should surface a re-confirmation prompt, not get retrieved as ground truth. OpenAI's Dreaming V3 (June 4, 2026) was built specifically to fix this; the previous saved-memories system would still claim "you're going to Singapore in July" months after the trip ended.^[10:2]
• Transient signals ("I'm tired today", "running late this morning") shouldn't enter the store at all. The extraction prompt is your filter; if it returns these, tighten the prompt.

There's a category most engineers don't think about until the legal team raises it: data the user is entitled to have erased. Under GDPR, a right-to-erasure request means the memory store has to forget on demand. The trap is that deleting the source text is not enough. Embeddings derived from personal data are recoverable to a meaningful degree, with research citing 40 percent PII recovery from sentence-length embeddings and up to 70 percent from shorter texts.^[11] Erasure means deleting the embedding vector, the source text, and any summary that referenced it, all keyed by the user namespace you set up on day one. If you didn't namespace by user ID, you can't comply at all.

The fix to unbounded growth is a relevance-guided eviction policy: score each fact by recency, retrieval frequency, and semantic alignment with recent queries, and evict the bottom of that score at a scheduled compaction interval. Recent forgetting research (April 2026) demonstrates this approach beats the no-eviction baseline on long-horizon F1 while keeping context size bounded.^[12] The policy you write will be specific to your product, but the principle is universal: a memory system that can't forget is an archive, not a memory.

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